Advice on how to handle this new girl?

I just asked this but i only got two responses. two excellent responces but i want more feedback. long story short i met this girl who i think has the opportunity to be an amazing catch. we meet at a bar, a place i never thought i'd meet anybody, and had a great conversation the entire time. i've talked to her on the phone and she sounds enthusiastic to meet again this weekend. how do i pursue this? i reallyh like this girl but i dont want to force it. it's messing with my head because our schools are close enough to each other that this relationship doesnt have to end at the end of summer. she is iincredible i cant screw this up.Advice on how to handle this new girl?
Take it slow and easy. Get to know her outside of the bar. Take her somewhere fun like the beach and just hang out. Talk to her face-to-face. Get to know her and her friends and family. But take it slow. Don't rush things.Advice on how to handle this new girl?
Just take her out some where besides the bar. Invite her to join you in an activity you enjoy doing and just be yourself. Don't treat her as a girl you want to hook up with, rather just treat her a new friend. If she wants to be more than just friends you will know by the signals she throws your way, that is the point where you persue it for what it is. If things go the ways you want then tell her how you really feel about her and the situation. Be honest and to the point , you have to express what you feel though otherwise you will be kicking your own *** for a long time for letting it slip away without trying because you were nervous of what she would say.
go for it or you will always wonder
I think that you are over thinking this. That is the first thing you have to stop doing.





The first thing you have to do is ';be yourself';!!!! There is nothing better than that. Take it one date a time. And see where this relationship goes. Because just because you put all your efforts does not mean that she will so get to know here and see if she really is great catch as you say or if it was a show.





You will only know this in time. Be patient!!!!





Enjoy the courtship and as alwasy be yourself!!





Good luck
Just relax, enjoy the date and take everything as it comes. If is meant to be... Many women don't like when a guy goes too fast. Sometimes we prefer friendship first. Let her give you a hint about her feelings about you. Good luck!
I think that you should go for it. Ask her to go on a fun date with you. Something like bowling, putt putt golf, or laser tag. Bowling and putt putt will be better if you want to talk but laser tag is definitely fun and brings the inner kid out of anyone.





Fun dates means no awkward silences because it isn't uncomfortable.





Good luck.
All it takes for failure to prevail is for you to do nothing. In good will, with your best foot forward, go after her and make her yours. You have nothing to fear buy fear itself.
Take it slow and lay back don't rush it. Then she'll probably get into you and then really liking you. Just stay cool. Don't rush anything talk a lot, a lot of talking helps.
Well im only 15 and ive went through the same thing. I liked this girl but we hardly got to hang out and so i wasnt trying to force anything. Well since we are 15 she has a little less patience and ended up getting mad at me because i didnt ask her out soon enough. So waiting to long is even worse because we arent even friends anymore just becuase i didnt ask her out.
be yourself


dont try 2 b some1 your not


and let her know the real u
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just be urself.......and take it easy ...dont allow urself to get too attached
Don't put so much pressure on yourself. Go out with her again. Have a great time. Laugh a ton. Get to know each other. Within a few dates, you'll both have a better idea where the relationship is headed towards.
Try not to be so eager or desperate, take your time and get to know her. Let nature take it's course...........and don't call every hour on the hour and act like a stalker.


Play a little hard to get..............and Just be yourself.
Don't rush to have sex. It is the first thing that would spoil it. Get to know her really well. Be interested in finding out about her, let her know you. Taking it slow is very important. see each other during the day and have fun. Just make a friendship with her and it is sure to go your way.
how many times did u guys met? if u guys met only 1/2 times it will take time. as long as she is interested in u, keep things formal. not all the girls are same, for some girls it takes time. she will respect u for the long run and ur patience with her. ask her out for some outdoor activities, like sports or something. so u guys will get more closed physically. try to keep things funny but don't rush and force her.