Thursday, December 31, 2009

I need advice on how to talk to a stranger and get inside there world without making the situation werid.....?

If you mean being able to relate to others while not really knowing them personally, just remember that we are all humans and all have certain needs and desires. These include getting educated, getting a job, getting a house/home and car. All of these ';things'; are centered around the desire to be sucessful and able to provide for our family.





This is how you can relate to any other human being, through these basic human drives for love, family, success.I need advice on how to talk to a stranger and get inside there world without making the situation werid.....?
Tell this stranger that you're doing a paper on inside a strangers world, and can you buy him/her a cup of coffee.I need advice on how to talk to a stranger and get inside there world without making the situation werid.....?
';Getting inside their world'; sounds weird enough. I don't know what you mean by that.
That's already weird.
Hmm... I think it really depends on what the actual situation is and what the reason is for wanting to get inside the world of someone you do not know..





If it is something that is really weird like You can foresee their future or something and feel you must warn them, or whatever just a weird situation then my advice is don't~ that's really creepy don't you think? If its weird as in you feel it would be awkward because you don't know a certain person, but would like to get to know them in like a friendship or romantic way, just be casual. Like small talk.. ';Hi, those are pretty shoes'; ';Hey, the weather sure is nice/ crappy/cold whatever...'; followed by ';I'm so and so'; and so on. Develop a rapport :) Small talk is great for that. If they want you in their world then I guess they'll let you in and if not, well I guess you'll have to keep trying. Lots of fish in the sea, but you have to get in the water to meet them :P





Good luck!
Start slow and keep it simple. Each day build on it a little at a time.
Are you doing a documentary or something? Otherwise, it'll be very hard to find someone that wouldnt mind you knowing about their personal life without knowing you.
Approach them, tell them where you know them from, why you want to get to know them and ask them if they want to get to know you. If they don't, be respectful and back off.
It's awkward at first...then a little flirting does the trick...same as humor...make 'em laugh!!!!! :)

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