Friday, January 8, 2010

Need advice for how to make and keep friends..PLEASE?

well i need some advice on how to keep friends for more then a year..and also how to make friends..i will take advice from anyoneNeed advice for how to make and keep friends..PLEASE?
making friends easy for some people, and hard for others.


it was really hard for me when i was younger because i was shy.





You just got to learn how to open up and be someone people want to hang out with. START conversations with people. and most importantly. GET INVOLVED. join a dance class at your school, or band, or something. you make friends incredibly fast that way.





And keeping friends is harder. I think its a habit for some people to be two-faced and go behind their friends back. but thats how you lose the best of friends. stick up for your friends.....people will respect you for that. trust meNeed advice for how to make and keep friends..PLEASE?
Be friendly to people, ask them questions to get to know them a bit better (eg the basics, like school/work, family, hobbies, favourite music etc). If they seem nice, suggest going out for a coffee so that you can talk further. It's all a bit hit %26amp; miss with potential friends, because it does take time to find out whether or not there's something there to build a friendship on. But basically, I think if a person's nice %26amp; you can have a conversation with them, it's worth pursuing. Holding onto a friend requires effort - make sure you keep in contact with them, even via sms, respect the person, allow them to say what's on their mind %26amp; make sure they respect you too.
You just gotta stay positive!!! You need to speek up and introduce yourself, start some conversation. Don't make it all about you, ask people questions so you can get to know them better. 脕nd most importantly, don't give up! There is always someone.

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