Im a mentor for some kids and this one girl who is 13 years old asked me today,';I know how guys get 'horny' but I don't get how us females can get horny? Im so confused on that works.';
I need advice on how to explain this as best I can without getting into too much detail. If you know what I mean.I need advice on how to explain something to a 13 year old girl.?
Just say this: '; I'll tell you when you get older. '; OR you can explain it but leave out anything that may get you OR the girl in trouble, OR you can get sombody of the same gender and leave it at that.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Ladies, any advice on how to climax?
I have never had an orgasm during sex. I have always been very close to it but for some reason it just doesn't happen! I know how to please myself but when a guy does it he doesn't always hit the right spot - even when I show him.
The same goes for oral sex and when a guy puts his fingers inside me. It feels great, but I will never climax. I wonder if it has to do with maybe pleasuring myself too much alone, or that I just can't do it!
I know it's not the guy, it's me.
Please elaborate!Ladies, any advice on how to climax?
Perhaps you get nervous at that moment or maybe he stops hitting it right? I heard that through masturbation you can really screw up the whole pleasure through sex thing. You may get off too soon or just not feel as good.
The same goes for oral sex and when a guy puts his fingers inside me. It feels great, but I will never climax. I wonder if it has to do with maybe pleasuring myself too much alone, or that I just can't do it!
I know it's not the guy, it's me.
Please elaborate!Ladies, any advice on how to climax?
Perhaps you get nervous at that moment or maybe he stops hitting it right? I heard that through masturbation you can really screw up the whole pleasure through sex thing. You may get off too soon or just not feel as good.
Need advice on how to do this...?
So i live in a small town, and somehow everyone gets into everyones business, and causes problems, and says things that arent true. Lately i have been in that ';talk about circle'; but i dont even go out anymore... i work and thats about it,. How do i go about getting out of that circle?? like its just getting irritating.Need advice on how to do this...?
To get out of the circle , you must get out of the town ,
THAT is the way of small town life , and only moving cures it .
Either accept being part of the drama or set sights on urban civilization .
Note: once you make the jump to civilization , many find it hard to go back for more than like a week to see family or something .
good luck
%26gt;Need advice on how to do this...?
When there is no fuel for a fire, it dies out. They have no fuel. It will pass. Many times I was in the circle and I figured I know the truth and that is all that matters. My real friends will not believe it and they will defend me. And if someone is talking about me, they are leaving someone else alone.
well for one those people have no life, but all you can do right now is let them say what they want, you know you and that's all that matters correct? so if any ones to ask or talk to you about it defend yourself and let them know whats true.
You can't. If they want to talk about you, they will, you can't stop them.
On the bright side, when people are bitching about you, its usually out of jealousy.laura mercier
To get out of the circle , you must get out of the town ,
THAT is the way of small town life , and only moving cures it .
Either accept being part of the drama or set sights on urban civilization .
Note: once you make the jump to civilization , many find it hard to go back for more than like a week to see family or something .
good luck
%26gt;Need advice on how to do this...?
When there is no fuel for a fire, it dies out. They have no fuel. It will pass. Many times I was in the circle and I figured I know the truth and that is all that matters. My real friends will not believe it and they will defend me. And if someone is talking about me, they are leaving someone else alone.
well for one those people have no life, but all you can do right now is let them say what they want, you know you and that's all that matters correct? so if any ones to ask or talk to you about it defend yourself and let them know whats true.
You can't. If they want to talk about you, they will, you can't stop them.
On the bright side, when people are bitching about you, its usually out of jealousy.
Any advice on how to relax??
i get really stressed , and i have trouble relaxing...any ideas?Any advice on how to relax??
i like going for long walks somewhere calm and then find a nice peaceful place to sit and relax. bring along your mp3 player and play soothing music or listen to the nature around you. if you dont have a place nearby that would help you, just lock yourself in the room and dim the lights. just lie down in bed and imagine yourself in a place where you are most relaxed (like the beach or the mountains). you should feel better after a bit...Any advice on how to relax??
You should do a complete theraphy...
First, turn-off your phone and any other noisy thing. Then, prepare a warm bath, put your favorite calm and quiet music on your iPod and then, place a drop of lavender essence in your ears and back your head... turn off the lights and keep relaxed.
Listen to relaxing music, read a book, spend time with your friends/family/pets. Do exercise of some sort.
xanax. or valium or ativan or klonopin
I have to leave my stressful environment, it helps when I go in my car with no radio on and just close my eyes and try to tune out.
take a bubble bath with candles and oils or get a massage
Answering questions in here does it for me.
Go for a walk. As a retired mental health practitioner of 20+ years and an avid aerobic exerciser in long distance running and even longer distance bicycle racing and riding, I can assure you that if you walk regularly, purely for the ';fun'; of it, and no chore at all attached to it, you will be relaxed when you return. If you consume anything with caffein in it, you need to cut back on that. Watching your sugar intake is important here too. But, as an M.D. who once worked with me said, ';If people would just go for a small walk four or five times a week, much of their tension would start going away with regularity, but many of them won't do it because it's too easy, and free. People like to pay big money for 'treatment' instead of actually solving the problem.'; God Bless you.
take time to exercise, swimming is a great relaxer, try reading a book you always meant to read, get a massage once a month....don't sweat the small stuff
Take a deep breath and start meditating
i like going for long walks somewhere calm and then find a nice peaceful place to sit and relax. bring along your mp3 player and play soothing music or listen to the nature around you. if you dont have a place nearby that would help you, just lock yourself in the room and dim the lights. just lie down in bed and imagine yourself in a place where you are most relaxed (like the beach or the mountains). you should feel better after a bit...Any advice on how to relax??
You should do a complete theraphy...
First, turn-off your phone and any other noisy thing. Then, prepare a warm bath, put your favorite calm and quiet music on your iPod and then, place a drop of lavender essence in your ears and back your head... turn off the lights and keep relaxed.
Listen to relaxing music, read a book, spend time with your friends/family/pets. Do exercise of some sort.
xanax. or valium or ativan or klonopin
I have to leave my stressful environment, it helps when I go in my car with no radio on and just close my eyes and try to tune out.
take a bubble bath with candles and oils or get a massage
Answering questions in here does it for me.
Go for a walk. As a retired mental health practitioner of 20+ years and an avid aerobic exerciser in long distance running and even longer distance bicycle racing and riding, I can assure you that if you walk regularly, purely for the ';fun'; of it, and no chore at all attached to it, you will be relaxed when you return. If you consume anything with caffein in it, you need to cut back on that. Watching your sugar intake is important here too. But, as an M.D. who once worked with me said, ';If people would just go for a small walk four or five times a week, much of their tension would start going away with regularity, but many of them won't do it because it's too easy, and free. People like to pay big money for 'treatment' instead of actually solving the problem.'; God Bless you.
take time to exercise, swimming is a great relaxer, try reading a book you always meant to read, get a massage once a month....don't sweat the small stuff
Take a deep breath and start meditating
An advice on how to handle my 4mo. old stuff nose? I already do the saline, nose bulb, humidifier, etc.?
Use some Baby Vicks Vapor rub on babys neck, back, chect and oddly enough.. their feet. Makes sure they are covered though because that vapor rub makes you chilly when the air hits it. You can also buy some J%26amp;J vapor bath.. this WILL help with the stuffy nose. Other than that.. it just takes time... give it a week or so and he'll be all clear. Good luck.An advice on how to handle my 4mo. old stuff nose? I already do the saline, nose bulb, humidifier, etc.?
A little vicks under the nose, so the baby can breathe the vapor and open them up.====An advice on how to handle my 4mo. old stuff nose? I already do the saline, nose bulb, humidifier, etc.?
that is really all that you can do now that they say not to give medicines. You may want to talk to your babys doctor about it and see what they have to say. Maybe she has an allergy to something if the treatments that you are doing don't work well...
A nice warm...luke warm bath would be good. It will work out some of the mucus. But do that every night with some Vicks Vapor Rub for babies....after. Oh and don't use too much Vicks...just a tiny bit.
A little vicks under the nose, so the baby can breathe the vapor and open them up.====An advice on how to handle my 4mo. old stuff nose? I already do the saline, nose bulb, humidifier, etc.?
that is really all that you can do now that they say not to give medicines. You may want to talk to your babys doctor about it and see what they have to say. Maybe she has an allergy to something if the treatments that you are doing don't work well...
A nice warm...luke warm bath would be good. It will work out some of the mucus. But do that every night with some Vicks Vapor Rub for babies....after. Oh and don't use too much Vicks...just a tiny bit.
Any advice on how to legally handle marriage fraud, husband received resident card and left me and our kids??
Married a golf pro from England, he received his permanent resident card and walked out on me and our kids. Maxed out our credit card and bank accounts. Have been told by one attorney that nothing can be done, just divorce. I have already reported him to the INS. I was just wondering if there was something else I could do that I do not know about%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;Any advice on how to legally handle marriage fraud, husband received resident card and left me and our kids??
my only question to you is...Are you 100% sure he married you JUST because he wanted the resident card? or you are just being bitter and angry because he left you and your kids and you're trying to have an excuse for your failed marriage? My only advice to you is MOVE ON, try to seek some help, do it for your kids, I know is hard to realize that the man you put all your dreams on suddenly he leaves without caring about you or his kids, but...think that things happen for a reason. I hope you can move on and try to star a new chapter in your life...and let go of trying to ruing your ex's life. Good luck!Any advice on how to legally handle marriage fraud, husband received resident card and left me and our kids??
Find another lawyer and use the angle that he has taken money from the house that is needed. Also Because he is the ';golf pro'; he needs to pay child support. Although you may not need it he need to be responsible for his child(ren) and those bills.
I have seen first hand some women get manipulated by foreigners and it is real sad and painful. stay strong for your children's sake and don't be afraid to guide your children so they will not be hurt the same way. However, don't let them see your true feelings of the mater. They will come to grips on there own about their father.
Hire a hitman, or just forget about it, get a divorce, make sure that he has to pay a lot in child support and alimony.
Your attorney didn't give you all the facts. A divorce, yes. But he should be made by court order to return any money he stole, pay off the credit card and pay child support. A permanent resident card is not citizenship. He can be deported back to England, but not before he assumes his obligations to you and your children. Get a good attorney to represent you and fight for your rights as a wife and mother. What makes him think that he can just walk away from responsibilities? Then let the INS deal with him.
Hope his name is also on the credit cards...Sorry there are A$$hole$ still in the world.
If he left your home you are at least entitled to spousal support along with child support ( if they are his kids). Unfortunately that is all you can really get back from him. Just never marry again and collect spousal support based on whatever he makes now and have it updated as often as allowed, for his future earnings. Collect it till he dies.
my only question to you is...Are you 100% sure he married you JUST because he wanted the resident card? or you are just being bitter and angry because he left you and your kids and you're trying to have an excuse for your failed marriage? My only advice to you is MOVE ON, try to seek some help, do it for your kids, I know is hard to realize that the man you put all your dreams on suddenly he leaves without caring about you or his kids, but...think that things happen for a reason. I hope you can move on and try to star a new chapter in your life...and let go of trying to ruing your ex's life. Good luck!Any advice on how to legally handle marriage fraud, husband received resident card and left me and our kids??
Find another lawyer and use the angle that he has taken money from the house that is needed. Also Because he is the ';golf pro'; he needs to pay child support. Although you may not need it he need to be responsible for his child(ren) and those bills.
I have seen first hand some women get manipulated by foreigners and it is real sad and painful. stay strong for your children's sake and don't be afraid to guide your children so they will not be hurt the same way. However, don't let them see your true feelings of the mater. They will come to grips on there own about their father.
Hire a hitman, or just forget about it, get a divorce, make sure that he has to pay a lot in child support and alimony.
Your attorney didn't give you all the facts. A divorce, yes. But he should be made by court order to return any money he stole, pay off the credit card and pay child support. A permanent resident card is not citizenship. He can be deported back to England, but not before he assumes his obligations to you and your children. Get a good attorney to represent you and fight for your rights as a wife and mother. What makes him think that he can just walk away from responsibilities? Then let the INS deal with him.
Hope his name is also on the credit cards...Sorry there are A$$hole$ still in the world.
If he left your home you are at least entitled to spousal support along with child support ( if they are his kids). Unfortunately that is all you can really get back from him. Just never marry again and collect spousal support based on whatever he makes now and have it updated as often as allowed, for his future earnings. Collect it till he dies.
I need help on how i can get a girl to notice me,really good pick up lines and some advice on how to ask the g
As a girl myself (well, woman), I have to say PICK-UP LINES ARE THE WORST! They are so annoying...don't use them. I can't tell you how many guys I've laughed at for using them...not to be mean, but because they are so tacky. Just be yourself and let the conversation flow. Ask about her. If she mentions something you know about, talk about that. Don't be fake with pick-up lines...they don't work!I need help on how i can get a girl to notice me,really good pick up lines and some advice on how to ask the g
omg there really is a thing called a pick up line? lolI need help on how i can get a girl to notice me,really good pick up lines and some advice on how to ask the g
dont use pickup lines. just go up to her and start a conversation. and if it goes well, ask for her number
start with being her friend
1. ';Hey, You, I'm over here';.
2. ';Didn't I see you somewhere before, oh yea, in that Victoria Secret magazine';. That's a shoe in for sure.
3. ';Oh My God, I just died and went to heaven and there's a beautiful angel standing right next to me';.
4. ';Do you want to get it on, no I meant your sweater';. That way you're safe no matter what her answer is.
5. ';You may not be my Mrs., but you sure are my Mrs Right Now';. No, that one might not go over too well.
6. ';Yo Mamma who's your Daddy?';
7. ';Didn't I see your picture on SugarDaddies.com, looking at my profile?';
8. '; You want to go for a ride, on my Stallion?';
9. ';Want to play hide the salami, I'll bring the salami';.
10. ';Wanna play doctor, you can be the patient';.
Let me know how those work for you.
If they work, I get the credit.
If they didn't work, it was your fault for picking the wrong one ;)
try saying ';hi.';
jeez
Ask her if she wants to grab a bite to eat Saturday night, heard there's a great restaraunt down town...
omg there really is a thing called a pick up line? lolI need help on how i can get a girl to notice me,really good pick up lines and some advice on how to ask the g
dont use pickup lines. just go up to her and start a conversation. and if it goes well, ask for her number
start with being her friend
1. ';Hey, You, I'm over here';.
2. ';Didn't I see you somewhere before, oh yea, in that Victoria Secret magazine';. That's a shoe in for sure.
3. ';Oh My God, I just died and went to heaven and there's a beautiful angel standing right next to me';.
4. ';Do you want to get it on, no I meant your sweater';. That way you're safe no matter what her answer is.
5. ';You may not be my Mrs., but you sure are my Mrs Right Now';. No, that one might not go over too well.
6. ';Yo Mamma who's your Daddy?';
7. ';Didn't I see your picture on SugarDaddies.com, looking at my profile?';
8. '; You want to go for a ride, on my Stallion?';
9. ';Want to play hide the salami, I'll bring the salami';.
10. ';Wanna play doctor, you can be the patient';.
Let me know how those work for you.
If they work, I get the credit.
If they didn't work, it was your fault for picking the wrong one ;)
try saying ';hi.';
jeez
Ask her if she wants to grab a bite to eat Saturday night, heard there's a great restaraunt down town...
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