Newly single and a bit shy, need a little advice on how and where to meet girls?

just turned 30 and have a hard time making friends because of the shyness curse.Newly single and a bit shy, need a little advice on how and where to meet girls?
I'm guessing the normal places would be a bar, Barnes and Noble's. etc. The problem is if you are that shy, it'd be difficult to strike up a conversation there. My advice is to get involved in something you're good at.





If you're athletic, join a softball or soccer league. If you're musical, join a music club. There's tons of community events, you just have to get involved.





One place I never thought of was an animal shelter. One of my friends did this. He started volunteering there and come to find out, there were tons of single girls that were volunteering there too. He ended up meeting a girl that came in for a dog.





Best of luck!Newly single and a bit shy, need a little advice on how and where to meet girls?
how about going to the moonlight bunny ranch...
I too have the same problem. Words don't come when I see a girl.
well if your looking for a relationship, you dont want to take home a woman from the club, that's for sure. try going to church, work, Wal-mart, the mall, and any where were you want meet crazy women. and just start with small talk.
I'd suggest staying away from bars. Bars are great places to go to meet women if you're interested in something more equivocal to a one-night stand or a casual relationship. If you want a ';friend with benefits,'; a bar might be an ideal setting for you. But most women...if they're anything like the ones I've come to know...stay away from bars because they're not interested in casually picking up a stranger.


Girls will feel comfortable around guys who they believe share their interests. So, consider taking up a social hobby -- like swing dancing, a class at the gym, an outdoors club run by a local church -- anything that will get you some exposure to women and an excuse to start a conversation with them. They'll feel much more comfortable if they know you're not just looking for sex.